Comments:

Sunny - 2004-06-13 22:32:10
I had to go back to read the entrys from yesterday. I didn't get that Trinity was dissing you or being negative-only seeing things differently and trying to point out maybe things you weren't seeing and just trying to be helpful and supportive. We all have areas where we are more sensitive than others. With alot of us food junkies this is one of the areas. Especially so if we have struggles with body imaga. It's easy to say to worry about what people think but believe me try to get over it. Most people aren't thinking about us anyway as they too are worried about what other people think.
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Jennifer - 2004-06-13 23:57:21
I am sorry that you are being scrutinized by the people around you. That must suck. My inlaws the other day have noticed that I have lost weight, and my GMIL wanted me to pull up my shirt and see my stomach! GEESH!! I haven't lost THAT much and already she is being weird about it. Sometimes that alone can make the rebellious side in my want to binge. I really have to fight it.
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Trinity Sixty-Three - 2004-06-14 00:09:51
I am really glad you didn't take my comments as anything other than in the spirit in which they were given, which is supportive.

I care about you very much Amy. And I want nothing more than for you to succeed.

I only wish I had someone giving me the straight scoop, and some tough love, way back when, and perhaps I wouldn't be where I am today.

Now with that being said, it's up to you to take what you need and leave the rest.

Or -- if in fact what I have to say bothers you, drop me an email, and just tell me so, and I won't comment about anything you write ever again.

It's just how I am. I am all about observing other people's boundaries.

And Susan, if you have an email, drop me an line, so we can talk about why you were so upset about what I had to say to Amy. I read, and re-read what I wrote. And I don't think I was in any way inappropriate, or not supportive, in fact, I think I was being honest, supportive, and terribly loving. I am sorry what I said offended you, or threatened you in any way. That wasn't my intent.

Xoxoxox to you Amy:)
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Cruel-Irony - 2004-06-14 17:01:50
I love your new layout! Congrats on the weight loss too.
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