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Cosmicrayola - 2004-06-18 06:36:16
My heart goes out to your friend. I was in a realtionship with "ED" We lived together almost a year and then got married. From day two, he became everything your friend's husband is now. He terrorized me for three months before I realized that this was his true self. Tell her to get out now! She is in danger and counseling with not help this situation. The man needs more than a marraige counselor. As a side note. My "ex" went to intense counseling for three years and then remarried. She left him a month later for the same reason. Some mentally ill people are often experts at keeping it secret until they feel safe with the person they are with. I hope she leaves.
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Sunny - 2004-06-18 08:48:35
WOW! On all counts. You sound like you're doing really well post surgery Want to tell you to keep those 'carrots' (no pun intended) out there to give incentive for your weight loss. Maybe you can post a picture of the before pics and subsequent afters...to show us your progress. As for your friend...I know you post that it's a year ago but how is she doing now? From my experience people who place expectations that can't be met and then being angry because of it, on others shoulders have a problem themselves. This instance sounds extreme and I agree with Cosmicrayola that your friend's husband sounds mentally ill. Could he be a paranoid scitzo? Or OCD? Can someone be both? I hope she got out o.k.
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